1) I tana Khuanu ruat a ni lo
I tana Khuanu ruat (soulmate) anga I ngaih tlat chuan thlah a harsa anga I thinlung a dam har viau ang. He khawvelah I tan Khuanu ruat lo awm tehreng pawh nise tuna mi hi chu a ni lo. I tana Khuanu ruat nise chu in inthen tawp lovang. In inthen chhan a awm a, chu chhan chu engpawh nise in inkarah inremlohna a awm tihna a ni mai. I tana Khuanu ruat nen chuan inremlohna a awm dawn em ni?
2) Be tawh suh
Va biak chakna I nei a nih pawhin insum a tha. “I tha em?” – text/phone/engmah I va tih a ngai lo. Thian in ni lo, thian inkawmngeih ang posi a va biak a tul lo. Nangman I va biak a lo beisei laia I ngawih tlat chuan a inngaihtuah nasa ve viau ang. A rawn biak hmasak che pawhin chhan loh a tha (hrehawm a ti dawn). I rilru a nat thu hrilh a ngai lo. I chungchang sawi a ngai lo. Ama chungchang sawi a ngai lo. I va biak khan I thinlung a dam har mai mai. I tawrhna leh I thinlung natna a hriatthiampui lo che. A rukin be chak viau mahla I thinlung a dam hma chu be tawh rih suh. Nakinah thian satliah in la ni mahna, chumi hma chuan biak a ngai lo.
3) Delete rawh
Social media – Facebook, Instagram, Whatsapp, Snapchat, etc. ah inhmuh theihna a tam em avangin delete/block vek rawh. A tangkaina pakhatmah a awm lo. Thlalak thar a post em? Kan thlalak hlui a delete em? I rilru I tihah duh a nih loh chuan delete vek la hawi kir suh. Kan inthen hlimin ka di hlui hmeltha tak mai thlalak en turin a account ah ka kal thin a, mi ti thik turin thlalak tharte a lo dah ve bawk a. Thlalak ka hmuhin thinlaiah lunglen thar leh thin mahse nitin deuh thaw mai ka en lo thei lo. Mahni inhremna drugs chi khat a ni. Thlalakte rilruah a cham a, tuar a ti harsa lehzual takzet. Hun tamtak ka khawhral phah bawk.
4) Hla tilunglengtu che ngaihthla tawh suh. Bungraw hlui pawh dah bo rawh
Hlain mi rilru kuai theihna a nei a, hla hlimin rilru a chawk tho ang thovin hla ngui deuhin I rilru a tilunghnur thung ang. He hun hi a na lo thei ang bera paltlang I duh a nih chuan hla lunglen thlak deuh kha chu nidang atan dah tha rawh. Chutiang bawkin bungraw hlui, tlereuh, engpawh I ngaih tizualtu chu hmuh theih lovah dah tha rawh. I duh leh paih la, I duh leh nakina I hman leh atan dah tha la, I duh leh midang pe la, I duh leh ngaihzawng thar I pek tur atan kawl tha rawh.
5) Hun engemaw chen chu I lungchhe dawn.
Ni 20 chhung chu I ngui anga I tha leh mai ang tih tur hunbi thliah a awm lo. Mitin tan damna hun a inang lo, hun erawh chuan a tidam theuh thung. I lungchhia anga I lungleng viau maithei. Chaw ei theih loh leh mut that loh pawh I nei chawk maithei. I thiltih laklawh laiin I rilruin hmanlai a lo fang leh thin ang. Tuna I thinlung nat dan em em hi engtin nge midangin an lo tawrhchhuah theih zawk te pawh I ti hial maithei. Engmah I tithei rih lova hun I khawhral mai mai a nih pawhin tunah chuan I inngaihdam a ngai. Tun I dinhmunah awih har viau mahse hun a liam anga I lo ziaawm chho ve zel ang.
6) I rilru la pengtu tur zawng rawh
Mahni a tuar tluk tluk lovin thiante nena inkawm, I tuizawng infiamna (sports) khelh, thil thar zirte hian rilru a pawtpeng a (a khat tawkin a lo la bibo tho!). Engmah ti lova kun ngui reng ai chuan hmundanga zinbo daih te hian rilru chu a lapeng. Exer lak – gym a kal, pawna tlan, etc. pawimawh lai tak a ni bawk. I rilru la peng turin hmeichhe dang I biak teuh a ngai a nih chuan chu chu ti rawh. A bulpui berah chuan midangin I chhungril an hriatpui loh che avangin nangmaha hma I lak a ngai.
7) Lengdang an tam
Hmeichhe dang tam tak an awm. Ani aia fel, hmeltha, piannalh, rawngbawl thiam zawk. I awih lo a nih chuan I khawvel chettlatna hmun zimte atangin hmun dangah kal la hmeichhe dang I hmu teuh ang. Internet atang pawhin a hriat. Hmun tinah mihring an awm a, ngaihzawn sen loh hmeichhia an awm. Mipa mahni inenkawl tha, hlutna nei sang I nih chuan kawppui tur I tlachham lovang. Hmeichhe duhzawng mipa hlutna nei sang an tam lo hle. Ngaihzawng thar a hma aia tha I neih chuan I di hlui chu I theihnghilh vat ang.
8) Phuba la rawh
Mi awm lohna kawng kawiah infair fight turin lo cho rawh ka tihna a ni lo. I hmangaihin a then che a, mi tlaktlai lo taka I inngaihna hi malsawmna letling a ni thei. I thlir dan azirin – 1) He I kawchhunga thinrimna inchhek khawl hi mahni insiamthatna atan I hmang thei a, 2) Mi dawihzep ngai awh thei tawh lovah I chan phah thei bawk. Kei ka thlan tur zawk ka hria.I tawrhna hi I ex laka phuba laknan hmang rawh – Hlawhtlin hi phuba tha ber a ni. Inpawt tho la, mahni insiamthatnan leh hlawhtlin nan I hun leh I tha zawng zawng hmang rawh. I ex ngaihzawng dang tehkhin phak rual loh turin, nakina I ex la inchhir tur khawpin. I insawitheiha a hmuh tura I intihvei a ngai lo, aman a hre mai ang.