- Zosangliana Colney
“In the land of progressive Unicornia, science is only valuable if it is consitent with ideological dogma. Otherwise it is nothing more than bigoted hate facts.” – Gad Saad
“Most men would rather deny a hard truth than face it” – George R. R. Martin
Mipa leh hmeichhe hna a awm hrang (division of labour) lo kan han ti thla vei rawk a. Kan sawi chhuah duhna chhan a zir, mihring kan nihnaa in-puia in-support tawn tur kan nihna zawn a\anga sawi a nih chuan a \ha e. Mahse mahni group identity bík favour tumna leh rah beh nia inhriatna leh inngaihna(wokeness/”i am a victim therefore i am”) a\angin a nih erawh chuan a aia thu khal zawkah luhpui a ngaih ve ka ring. Gender leh a role te hi kan beisei leh siam chawp “social construct” kan han ti thla mai a, a ni reng em?
Hemi chungchang lo lar chhuahna bul ber nia lang ta ber chu Beauvoir-i lehkhabu Second Sex a\ang khan a ni awm e. A hnuah a aia khal zawkin Gender Trouble-ah Judith Butler khan a rawn reflect leh bawk a. A nih leh, kan beisei dan leh kan inenkawl(nurture) dan avanga kan role hi pu kan ni chiah em, a nih chuan hmeichhiaah chauh ni loin tuai leh patil kan tihah hian mipa/hmeichhe role hi apply tuma hlawhchham ta nu leh pa hi an va tam si ve. A chhan chu gender hi social construct/postnatal environment avang ni lovin biological a nih vang zawk a ni. Chumi pianpui thil chu pawn lama sãwi \hiah theih loh a ni a, chutiang chiah chu mi pangngai (straight) hoah pawh a ni.
Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie khan We Should All Be Feminist tih leh Dear Ijeawele tih a lehkhabu pan tak a ziahah khan chumi constructionist perspective chu hmangin hmeichhiain a toy duh thlanah nu leh pate’n khap kan neih avanga(e.g. Hmeichhiain truck khalh a duh a, mipain barbie a lo duh a. Hmeichhia/mipa khalh chi a ni lo tiin kan phalsak lova) mipa/hmeichhia tih chi bik(role) piang angin a sawi a. Mahse kha ringawt kha a ni lo. Cross-cultural psychologist Greet Hofstede khan ram 50 bial chhunga mipa leh hmeichhe intluktlanna ber tia a sawi Sweden-ah khuan naupang toy lawm zawng thlan dan hi social constructivist ho sawi ang leh ngaihdan ang ngawt a nih loh thu a sawi a. Anthropologist Jean-Pierre Rossie khan Sahara leh N. Africa ram \henkhata hnam hrang hrangah naute lem (doll) hmangin zir chianna a nei leh a. Chu’nga a zir chianna hoah chuan mipa (boy) aiin hmeichhia(girl)-in doll nena infiam an thlang tlangpui a ni.
Hmeichhia/mipa nihphung (trait) tur hi chhul chhunga awm laia lo inzam \an tawh a ni. Sex ang zawngin hmeichhia/mipa tur ni mah se testosterone level a in expose nasa a nih chuan pawn lama vawiina mipa tih chi kan tih zia leh nihna kha a pian chhuahpui a, mipa toy kha an lawm zui mai bawk. Testosterone level a expose tlem/hniam apiang kha hmeichhiaah a nù kan tih leh mipaah a pa lo, toy-ah pawh hmeichhe toy bika society-in a ngaih hran kha an lawm zui ve mai a, mipa zia lo ee kan tih te kha an ni ta zawk mai a ni. Lu tihkawlh mul kha culturally a hmeichhiain a lo tih \han a nih leh hmeichhe tih mia ngaih(deem) a nih chuan testosterone level hniam apiang khan an adopt zui custom a ni leh mai a. Socialization hi chuan khami kan ze pianpui kan express dan kawng kha lo control a tum mai zawk a ni – entirnan, mipa a ka pian chuan vawiina hmeichhe tih anga kan hriat \henkhat entir nan ka chak em em lipstick sen tak inhnawih ang te kha ti ngam lo turin mi hup bet mai a ni mahse ka gender kha socialization avanga awm chauh a ni lo tihna a nih chu. Testosterone hian ti-hrawl chakna a siam a, chuvang chuan mipa testosterone level a lo san avangin ‘physical strength’ a lo ngah a. Chu chiah chu a ni mipa hna, hmeichhe hna tia kan lo \hen hranna (division) lo irh chhuahna chu. Eng emaw chenah hna tih kawp theih hna te a awm a, tin a tha chak zawk chuan hna nêm leh awlsam zawk phei chu a ti thei leh zual ang. Chuta thil nih phung chu khata kan muscle strength a\anga tha ngai tam lo chi hna kha hmeichhe hna an lo tih pawhin huata lak viau tur pawh a ni lo.
Chutiang chu thil nih dan a nih laiin pâwn láng taka socialization anga sawi mai kha a fuh tawk lo a ni. Exceptional erawh a awm a, sawi \euh tham a la awm. Mahse majority laka mipa/hmeichhia anga thil nih dan dik tak zawk hliah botir nana hman kher erawh a rem lo ang. Tom Cruise aia a nupui Kate Holmes a san zawk avang ngawtin mipa hi an hniam zawk tih ang thuar tham sawi nuam ti chi ho kha Gad Saad kha chuan OPS(Ostrich Parasitic Syndrome) cognitive bias vei hoin an chin em em a nih thu a sawi. Chuvangin khatiang exceptional ground a\anga thil lo hrut rual ve ngawt tum chi a ni lo.
Ka sawi duh ni ta ber chu, kan inan lohna (physical difference) hi pawm ngamin pawm thiam ila. Eng emaw zawna chungnun zawkna nei ve ve kan ni. Chuvangin mipain a inngainep leh dah hniam zawnga ngeiawm taka hmeichhe chungchang comment a hnutchhiah kher a \ul lo a; kan comment kha biological fact a niha an ngai hua a nih erawh chuan a pawi lo thung. Hmeichhia lahin mahni feminity chawi kâna mahni identity recognize a duh lutuk luatna lamah hemi “fact” pela “truth” construct chawp tum emaw chutianga mahni âwn zawng lam truth lo keuh thluk tum tawh te thil sawi a dik a dawk thlu lova lo lem duak duak mai a fuh lem lo bawk. Chumi fuh loh dan hrethiam tur chuan kan ngaihdan leh duhdan support lam lehkhabu chauh ni lova a paihthla thei(debunk) thei lehkhabu kan chhiar tel ve tho te a ngai a ni. Mahni âwn lam leh mil lam inziahna lehkhabu ringawt keu hian hmasawnna aiin kal khat deuha extremism a mi hruai luttu mai a ni tawh \hin a. Kan ngaihdan a dik leh dik loh hi a hnial theitu ngaihdan dang a\angin kan hre thei chauh a ni.
Kan tana \ha tur buh tui tak kan duha kan ei rual hian a kara sehrep lo tel ve hi kan thlifim ve dawn lo’m ni, kan tana chhiatna leh hrisel lohna thlen thei a ni si a. Society kalphung(norms) laka ngaihtuahna fim put leh thil chîk, a \ul huna a ep zawnga kal ngam te hi a \ha lutuk a. Mahse thil nihna leh dikna(truth, reality) aia mahni duhthusam leh thleng se, ni se kan tih leh duh(what we want it to be) zawk thil hi social goal a pet luh \alh tum lai erawh a fel mawlh lo a ni.